japan
In early 2023, my husband and I ventured to Japan (like everyone else!) for 16 days on the trip of a lifetime. Contrary to our usual travels, I did my best not to over plan — it just felt too intimidating to try to create the perfect trip ahead of time. We chose where we wanted to go, and the only things I booked were hotels, a train pass (and gave us a loose train schedule to follow), and a couple of restaurant reservations. This ended up being the absolute perfect way to see Japan for our first time.
We decided, based on recommendations from a couple of friends and my brother, to do Tokyo, Hiroshima, Osaka and Kyoto, and then added in a couple more musts (an onsen stay, Himeji Castle and Nara) and a special day for Lewis in Kojima, the home of Japanese denim. Our itinerary has become one of my most asked for travel tips, so I thought I'd share it here with you all, along with some pro tips for exploring Japan. I've included a downloadable copy of the itinerary bare bones, and then expanded upon it here for you with photos.
The beauty of this region is enough to make it one of the most interesting places on the planet, but the culture is what makes it spectacular. Hiking into Khaz’ali Siq, a canyon created by waterfalls, petroglyphs made by the inhabitants thousands of years ago are revealed: two ostriches, inscriptions, and other symbols of ancient desert life, some dating back to the 8th century BCE. The sense of being thrown back in history is unparalleled.
Today, Wadi Rum, like many Bedouin regions, is a mix of tradition and modernity. Tourism is the primary industry: there are camps of tents providing a Bedouin experience, guided camel tours, and stations for having desert tea and buying souvenirs.
Our Bedouin guide provided an unforgettable day. We traversed the desert, stopping to explore sandstone dunes, canyons and arches, while he regaled us with stories about his family. Yet the best part was when Mohammed took us to his “restaurant”: a fire pit at the mouth of a rusty sandstone canyon in the middle of the desert, surrounded by broom and wild caper plants. He prepared skewers of chicken he had killed and marinated that morning, and salads full of ingredients from his farm. While coaxing a fire into existence, he hummed Bedouin tunes, then chopped vegetables faster than many professional chefs. Tongue out, he turned the skewers over the embers, urging them to cook faster, then checked their doneness by squeezing a piece of pita bread around the pieces of turmeric-dyed golden chicken. The meal was one of the best I’ve had: a bounty of chicken, hummus with cardamom, Bedouin salad, babaganoush, grilled tomatoes and onions rendered sweet from their time in the coals. With mounds of pita and our hands, we devoured the meal to the sound of Bedouin radio echoing through the silence of the desert.
After the meal, we piled back into the car and sped across powder-like sand towards Petra. To say that reaching the asphalt highway was a disappointment would be an understatement. Still, watching the sun set over the distant granite mountains while driving along an ancient Roman road heading to the tombs of Petra made saying goodbye to Wadi Rum a tad bit easier.






